Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Life, love, and other mysteries

I was comparing past relationships to someone I am dating now, impressed that he is so self-sufficient, and it hit me. Maybe he is the norm and I set the bar to low to fairly compare. Is it tolerance and naivete that I have been okay with not so self-sufficient boys in the past when I needed a way of justifying my uneasiness about them?

And in general, a person is who they are now, right? Where do I draw the line between deciding when to excuse past and when to take the past as something to watch out for in the future? If I don't really know, is it a risk worth taking to find out?

I need some answers.

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