Saturday, August 02, 2008

Apparently, Thursday is the new Sunday

So I haven't been out as much as I thought I would this week, I mean around Brighton (grrr). I actually worked late hours two days because I made the mistake of telling the office back at DTC that I'd be checking my email regularly and that I had a phone number at my desk here. What it comes down to is, I haven't been able to do any STC work and I've been stupidly taking on more DTC work while I'm here.

I would have hoped I had more control over my time and that people would leave me alone a little bit more since I am not at DTC, but in fact, it has been the opposite today. Dean asked Janice to contact me and requested a few time consuming things, and with the distance/time difference, I did not get this request in time to finish it before 5:30pm here. I ended up staying quite late. It was quite frustrating but I didn't know how to say "too bad, no I can't do it".


I think a part of the problem is that I feel bad for doing a half-ass job on certain events and projects, but the other part of me argues "I had to do it, I just couldn't get it done before leaving for STC because it is just too much work!" The second part of the problem is that the department does not exist anymore so I don't have anyone else to direct questions and inquiries to. Andy and Simon over here at HM were in awe of what kind of stress I allow them to push on me - especially since the phone keeps ringing and ringing for me and it is always more work for me to do. I'm not answering the phone anymore, forget it.

Anyyyyway, separate from the bitter side of me....
I went out to lunch with the Harrington McDermott team on Tuesday afternoon(!!!!!!) They're such a great group of guys, I am so excited to be here working with them! They are what I imagined and more: super talented, witty people, strategic planners, and kick ass!

I had a long chat with James before lunch and during our walk to the restaurant about my possible future at HM and about how things are going in the US. He was very keen to the idea of having me work for HM from now on, separate from Ricardo (which was my hidden agenda to bring this up) but he said there are a lot of complications regarding visas, work permits, and how that affects taxes. But he did say there is a good possibility. One particular concern he had was that he felt Ricardo may have a really bad reaction to the situation if I take everything Ricardo has invested in me and go to HM, which I have a hard time wrapping my head around because I'll be really working for them no matter who signs my checks at the end of the day. More to come about this. I'm not leaving until we get a little closer to a decision (aka I'm not leaving until I've had a chance to convince them this is a good idea).


I went bowling with the IT group on Tuesday which was a ton of fun. It was so weird to finally put names to faces of people I've worked closely with in the last couple years! Here are some funny pictures:



I haven't had a bad meal so far, although I've been super super cautious. I look at the number of people already in the restaurant (if it's busier, I think the food is probably better) and the menu before I walk in. But part of it is that I've gone to restaurants that Claude and Tina have recommended, have just gone to the grocery store for ready-made sandwiches, or have eaten lunch at the canteen at STC.

Went out on Thursday night with Nicholas, Lauren, and two of Nicholas's friends and got t-r-a-s-h-e-d. We went out on the Brighton Pier to a bar for beer and then I had my first try of Pimms (yum!), back on the Seafront to a Chinese restaurant where we beer and sake with dinner, and then out to the Honey Club (it's on wikipedia... weird) on the seafront. I was so hungover the next morning, I passed out on the couch in the HM conference room for like an hour in the morning (embarassing! oops). More funny pictures to come - I have to get most of them from Lauren anyway.



Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Funny English words and phrases I've learned

Dogging - old fashion term for when people take their dogs for walks in the park and see couples snogging or necking in their cars

Chav - used in equivalence to "redneck" in America

Bonnet and Boot - equivalent to "hood and trunk" (of a car) in America

Uni - short for university (the first time someone asked how long I've been in the Uni, I had no idea what he was asking me)

Getting ready to live off of fish and chips!

My hotel, literally on the seafront across the street (I should have taken a picture of the seafront, oops!)



Well, I'm here and I am soooo jetlagged and exhausted. I think being 5 hours off here is much worse than being 12 hours off in Taiwan!

Rewinding a little bit, my goodbye lunch and last (sort of) day at Ricardo was good. What threw me off is that I sent out a goodbye email to say goodbye (obviously), and a lot of people seemed to take it as a "say goodbye and send me all the work you need done right away". Grrr.

Everything is going well so far... the flight, the ride from the airport to the hotel, the food (cross your fingers for me!), the people, the weather... I've been too non-functional to actually do or see anything around here. I took a long walk yesterday to find a place to eat but I was just trying to stay out of my room and awake.

The only thing that is kind of annoying me is that the toilet in my hotel room keeps doing crazy things. I think the water pressure just isn't enough for the toilet to actually flush, so I have to use a small cup to try to fill it up with enough water before it will flush. How does a toilet work? I need to figure this out so I can figure out how to get it to properly flush. I'm too settled in the room to ask for a room change, and something tells me I may run into the same problem in a different room anyway.

Buuut I'm going out to lunch with the Harrington McDermott group today (yay) and bowling with the IT group tonight!

More to come, I'm supposed to be working right now but my computer is super slow.

Friday, July 25, 2008

My farewell email to Ricardo friends

The time has finally come for me to leave Ricardo and finally focus on finishing my degree as a student! It’s hard for me to write this because Ricardo has become a big part of my life and Ricardo people have become like family to me in the time that I have been here. Thank you for your support, life lessons, friendships, mentorships, and your day-to-day kindness. I have had an amazing experience working with all of you and I wish you the best for the future! Keep in touch!

Sunday, July 20, 2008

Start counting down, not too much longer now!

This is where I'll be staying for 2.5 weeks!